Housewife University

Curtains Please...

2012-01-30T11:39:00.000-08:00

I am not sure what I was thinking. Few weekends ago I made a trip with our two youngest to meet up with my mother-in-law and her sister at a well known fabric store in here in Finland. I knew exactly what I wanted. I figured the last time the same shop did my curtains was not that high in cost. I mean my friends in Asia and Africa get their sewing services done for practically nothing.

Apparently not in Finland.

Well, blonde here went straight up to the lady and showed her all the details. I had measurements, pictures in magazines, and saw exactly what I wanted displayed up on the wall. She could tell I was serious. So there my mother-in-law was patiently helping me explain what I wanted. We were there like an hour when I realized I needed to nurse. So there I was nursing and the lady at the shop even drew a picture to make sure it was what I wanted.

She then explained that she needed to calculate the measurements and cost of service. Meanwhile I looked around while I was trying to imagine them not being too expensive.

WRONG.

After she was done she gathered us around and explained the cost of each item. She explained the first sheet and already then I was about to pass-out. I could feel disappointment and and sour feeling in my tummy....

There was a second sheet. Not realizing it, I said, "Oh, My Go..." Mouth wide open with a look of naivety I'm certain. My mother-in-law could see the look in my face, so she calmly asked the lady questions for clarity and said, "So what is the cost without the service?".

I should know better. I have a sewing machine. I don't sew well, so I figured someone else could do it! (That and I have four children and a hubs to care for).

Ready for the cost?

791.62 Euros

No lie. That is like $1,000. Yes. Goofy here was dreaming. It is nearly half of that price if I want to do it on my own. Hah!

It is now a joke around here. I mean that is like our rent. A plane ticket to California. A brand new stroller. Several wells for 3rd world countries. You name it.

Guess I better start practicing my sewing skills!

What is true?: Freedom from Fear

2012-01-23T11:49:00.000-08:00

The past few weeks I have been learning a lot. Several decisions had to be made for the calendar and I finally sat down with the hubs. He asked a really important question about our children's schooling. I noticed we started butting heads when I found myself trying to hide fear.

Once I expressed that fear, we began discussing what was true. He helped me to see what things are for what they really are, and not what I imagine them to be. After that conversation I had an amazing experience during that week. I felt like that burden and fear was lifted. The following day I met up with a close friend. As we were going through the book, Disciplines of a Godly Woman, by Barbara Hughes I was reminded of this passage of scripture:

"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things." Philippians 4:8

It was last spring at a women's retreat that I heard Angela Mooney from FBCN refer to this passage of scripture. I remember her encouraging us to rely on God's word to see what is true and honorable...

I sensed the Lord's grace the whole weekend and thought surely someone is praying for me (At least Christ is on my behalf). I even told friends that I wasn't fearful. I was wrong.

I also have been learning that the enemy can use two things to cause you to want to be in control: Fear and Anger. None of these are fun to have, but when released into the Father's hands, freedom flows and the grace of my Lord Jesus Christ enters in.

Fear can keep you from doing just about anything, whether good or just normal common everyday things. Although, not totally paralyzed to fear, in some ways it has kept me from even writing (whether it be my journal or blog, etc.). The thing is, I enjoy writing. So, here I am writing! Praise the Lord!

Merry Christmas and Happy Anniversary!

2011-12-23T13:07:00.000-08:00

My hubs, of 12 years!

cutetsy-wutesy!

Wow, checking in with the blog world...

My has our little gingerbread grown! She is so cute and so fun. 10 mos. old and learning a lot from her siblings. She can babble words, but no so sure she knows what they are. Mikko and I just had our 12th anniversary, wow, time flies. Grateful to the Lord for him and the man that God is making him to be. It was just yesterday that I was holding his sweaty hands at the alter (talk about nervous). The time this Fall, as gone fast and now it is Christmas! Enjoy the holidays everyone!

Merirosvot Synttärit-Pirate's party!

2011-11-20T21:51:00.000-08:00

Captain Timo helps me with the ship...

Totally his idea to make the bottom the water...

Starboard and Port!

Captain at the Head.

Pirates who don't do anything...(inside joke)

Captain Timo and his daddy...and little sis

Dar he blows!

Barndog was a little too excited to eat the cake...

Guest pirates...

I see a lego world in my future...

And more legos...

What a fun party! It was totally less stress than other parties... Timo did an awesome job helping with the cake. I even sang the Veggie Tale song to everyone (The Pirates who don't do anything). He is very blessed to have faithful Uncles and Aunts in the Lord love on him that evening.

Happy 5th Birthday Timo!

2011-11-14T22:51:00.001-08:00

Timo and I at small group...

He is quite talented with drawing. He drew this picture for his sister!

And thank you Tuija!

It seemed like yesterday we were in California

and us parents were laughing at his 4th birthday

because of the loud power tools and boys running around.

Son, you are truly a joy.

You make us laugh,

are interested in the things of life and how they work.

You are an artist and a cook.

You are fun and bouncy, and keep bouncing when you are excited.

I look forward to see what the Lord will do in your life.

We love you!

Happy 5th Birthday!

Happy Birthdays!

2011-09-01T11:50:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday to my husband and daughter. You make the world a special place for all of us!

May God bless you another year in learning to follow Him and serve Him in all you do.

Let me introduce you to Kimmo!

2011-08-02T04:07:00.000-07:00

Across the country in Finland, in several locations, are persons sitting in a digger (not sure of the name in english), in side some mall practically the whole summer. Why? To my understanding, the person who stays the longest, wins the digger-thingy. Two have already dropped from the contest. A friend said she read an article saying that they only get to walk around 30 minutes a day within the mall. He sits and sleeps there (already 61 days). He has his ipad and gets served food from within the mall. I asked if I could put him on my blog and he obliged. So here is a pic of the boys and I next to Kimmo!

I do want to know a few things Kimmo:

When and how do you use the toilet (on your thirty minute break?)

Are you single? I notice all the girls talking to you when I frequent to mall. Way to go bud.

What kind of people have you met from this contest?

Are you confident that you will win?

Go Kimmo!

2011-07-24T13:13:00.000-07:00

I want to thank my friend, Mary and her mother for taking an old piece of quilt that my great-grandmother made (and never completed) and turning it into something beautiful. It is estimated to be from the 30's.

Genesee Home

2011-06-29T04:52:00.000-07:00

Have a nice trip mom and dad! LOL

Santa Monica...quite windy!

I'm glad I brought me jacket along!

Meal waiting for us...

Mikko enjoying something warm to drink...

A new friend! :)

First outing...

Freezing water!

Majesty!

Oh deer...

First Bike outing...

Long day...let's nap!

Oh Mikko...

We nearly didn't make it up the mountain! Now I know why cyclist wear cushioned tights...ooops.

I don't see how he can do that! Ants everywhere! Oh, wait he is a Finn...

More freezing water!

Far?

Going back down from our LONG bike ride...

Last time to gather and share some thoughts of our time there with new friends.

Lovely breakfast...

New friends!

Before we returned to Finland, my husband, Mikko took me (a homebody) away from Riverside and our four children under six. Surprisingly, our small baby took well to the bottle and slept pretty good too for our care givers...

This trip was well needed and quite adventurous! Only because we were 5 minutes too late to check in our bags.

Oops.

There is a first time for everything! So we took a bus to Santa Monica pier area until it was time to get back to our flight.

Reno was our landing spot. We rented a car (because it was so late and our host had already drove there waiting for us...but we missed our flight. Doh.) and headed to California's Genesee Home. To know more check out the sight and enjoy the pics...

A Funny Old Letter to My Parents

2011-05-21T16:41:00.000-07:00

As we prepare to pack for Finland, I am still going through letters. It's crunch time, so before I throw this one away, I thought I would share it with you. I must have been 5th or 6th grade. I purposely did not correct the spelling (It's funnier that way). The brackets are my updated comments...

Notice how respectful I am toward my parents (insert sarcasm here). Sorry mom and dad.

Dear Mom and Dad,

I am writing to you because of what I was talking about this morning. I think I'm old enough to have a animal of my own. (besides pokey) I'd like to have a rabbit because you don't have to buy food. I'd get some grass or weed [LOL] and give it to the rabbit, if not I'll buy the food [with what money?]. Besides when I'm down I'll all I'd have to do is talk to the rabbit [bunny psychologist?]. And if I have to I'll name it after a baseball player [sounds like a bribe]. And I know your going to say no because the house needs to be built and there's to many animals. But I don't care! [whoa, really Heidi?] The house won't be built in a couple. Becides, what does a rabbit have to do with the house. I'll have responsibility to take care of it. Everyday I'll take it out for fresh air and make sure the dogs don't bother it. Now I know your going to say "some other day". But don't bring me down. It's no fair! I know I used to have chicks but they were little and died [that really helped my proposal]. But these rabbits are about a year old. I'll take care of everything, like a cage or something. Don't say you do no how I feel because you don't. Ever since Dayna [Friend from 3rd grade] left I feel so lonely.

Your sad daughter,

Heidi

P.S. If you say no you'll put me down really bad!

P.S.S. I worked hard on this letter if you say no its like wasting a good paper!

P.S.S.S. I'm your only daughter, don't put me down.

P.S.S.S.S. I don't have a sister! I'd like to at least have a rabbit!

P.S.S.S.S.S. If your going to say something it better be good for me!

Hair Cut For Us Girls

2011-05-18T20:15:00.001-07:00

Say Cheese!

Her baby is 1 month older than our Susa.

Before we head off to Finland, I thought us girls would see Christina my hairdresser. Thought I'd trim P's hair so she can actually see! tee-hee.

My Great-Grandmother's Unfinished Project

2011-05-17T20:48:00.000-07:00

She has already sewn a 6x3 piece plus these 20 squares.

Several of these flowers (32 not sewn to material).

About 22 of these wreaths...

I love old things turned new, and I may quite possibly have a friend who could help sew something special for my grandma and myself. But that is the question...What should be made? Quilts? Aprons? Hats? Pillow cases? A hand bag?

What do you think?

Disneyland!

2011-05-05T07:07:00.001-07:00

Operation lay-on-the-sun-block...

taking off for lift off!

Oma and the kiddos...

daddy and his princess!

My favorite pic...

silly brother and scandinavian small world dolls...

boating...

T.J. wants to be police man when he grows up.

cute.

We are in a firetruck...cause we're hot! tssssss....

We have had an incredible time here in So Cal. I am ever so grateful to our family friend's who got us into Disneyland! Thank You! Thank You! Thank You! My mother and brother joined us for loads of fun...

I mentioned that I would do a post on my un-procrastination Day. But that will have to wait. tee hee. Enjoy the pics!

2011-03-08T21:14:00.000-08:00

What an precious life given to us! Her official name: Susannah Gloria. Born February 22, 2011 9:58 p.m. weighing 8lbs 14ozs and 21 inches long. Special thanks to Karen Pecora of Blessed Beginnings for her care, services, and hopefully continued friendship. Also thank you to Lori-Lynn Navarro for taking photos for this special event!

After her cute first cry she looks up at me for the first time.

Finding out it's a girl!

Head measurements...

Ear discovery...

The American-traditional-father-cuts the chord...

First walk...

Mama's first meal: double-double, vanilla shake with fries. Thanks to Tess Berry.

Our Now 6 year old and Little Princes...Happy Birthday!

2011-02-24T09:52:00.000-08:00

Susanna born 22nd of Ferbruary (as predicted by midwife), 9:58 pm.

Little B and his little sister in utero.

Little B when he was born, 6 years ago.

You want details, call. Right now, I can tell you the pain was...there, intense, almost unbearable. Quickest labor yet and I nearly birthed her in the toilet. That's right. I had two great supporter friends, 2 midwives and my amazing husband (who would say he is not and nobody else is either, love you babe!). God was kind to not allow me to hemorrhage this time plus recover seems quick. Praise the Lord!

The Woods Method

2011-02-13T20:58:00.000-08:00

So as not to keep baby Sivonen fans in suspense, let me give you a reason to relax. Yes, true baby comes in "God's timing". I agree. Yet what I am about to share should give some women a reason to relax and not be so anxious about their baby coming.

Like some people I know [cough]...

Here is a little history of myself and my babies: All three have been over the EDD (estimated due date). This technique has been done on a traditional 28 cycle period wheel to guess when abouts the sweet comfortable baby will come out (emphasis mine).

But you know, many other mommies and myself do not have their periods every twenty-eight days...

Thinking I might have the baby TODAY. Our midwife tells us NOW, that the 13th is maybe not correct, nor is her wheel (15th).

"Then when is it Heidi?!"

Here is the email she sent me:

Here's the formula to calculate your estimate due date...

take the first day of your last menstrual period (5/10/10) and add 1 year

5/10/10 + 1 year = 5/10/11
subtract 2 months and 18 days = 2/20/11

for menstrual cycles longer than 28 days and the difference (so your days are about 30 we add 2)

2/20/11 + 2 days = 2/22/11 EDD

So your estimated due date based on the Wood's Method is February 22, 2011

Now that you can relax a little (ok, talking to myself too), you can read more about it here.

Life in So Cal

2011-01-03T07:02:00.001-08:00

Here is a serious mile mark in our children's history: They actually got a professional hair cut few weeks back! Normally daddy just buzzes their heads the same way. Because their heads are both shaped differently, T.J.'s hair was getting a little out of control. So here is the result!

I have maybe 10 minutes to write this post. That is how life goes. I completed a class at CBU this semester and juggled learning the whole homeschool thing and as well as learning from my educational specialist who is also new...but wonderful!

The children are blossoming and such a joy. This joy experience takes most my time and energy. I somehow think I can get things done in the evening when they are in bed, but by then I am exhausted!

Life in So Cal is so different. I see less neighbors, friends, and family (although seeing my folks more). The walking culture is less and most people stick to driving from place to place. People appear to be quite busy all the time. None of this is new to me...just revisiting.

M and I are desiring to know each other more and be more open and honest. Coming back home has brought much out of myself that I do not like. I see this as the Lord refining me and making me more like Him. We want to go on a retreat, but somewhat difficult being 34 weeks prego right?!

Well, my two youngest have found their way to my lap. Already I helped someone on the toilet and changed a pull-up while writing this. Don't ask how they fit on my prego belly. Gotta go, until then...

Praying for Children Who Serve Overseas

2010-11-28T07:31:00.001-08:00

Here is a great resource for teaching your children about other children around the world in Foreign countries serving along side their mommy and daddy. These children put up their prayer requests so that your kids can pray for them!

T.J. is Four!

2010-11-15T06:29:00.001-08:00

Our second son, T.J. turns four today! We are so proud of you son! It was hard to get you into this world, but I thank God for that seasoned midwife who came to our rescue! It was a dark November in Finland but somehow you brought light to our life. I love your facial expressions and the excitement you get when involved with others as well as your desire to learn. You are smart and can beat mama at memory and put together large puzzles. You are such a boy, everything is a gun or sword, your imagination is super creative. We love you son!

Southern California Fair

2010-10-20T06:21:00.000-07:00

Benfords 6000.

Our cute little pumpkins next to a 640 pounder.

Can you find the turkey in this picture? Just kidding dad!

Ofcourse, Oma and her cows...

Once again, "America, America..."

Chocolate covered bacon anyone?

Seriously...

Thank you Oma and Opa for coming out on Opa's B-day to have some fun with the kids and I!

California, U.S.A.

2010-10-14T06:34:00.000-07:00

What the staff and volunteers got to eat at Freshmen Orientation. Can you imagine myself, pregnant, looking at all this! "America, America..."

Contrast that with the rye bread I found at a health food store.

I left from my prenatal exercises to use the toilet only to come back to my children practicing them too.

How did you know I went to a warehouse store?

Here I am with 25 minutes to blog. We are here in California and have adjusted well. Enjoying the love and support here from fans and loved ones. You are my fans! Here are some random pics.

B: Our Little Toothless Music Artist

2010-07-26T10:53:00.000-07:00

A week ago I was brushing B's teeth as we just returned from saying good bye to team members the Paul family. I noticed his bottom tooth was missing! He was totally clueless and did not even know it was loose...or where it went even! Too funny.

Also, the other day I noticed B got out his guitar and begin singing two songs in English. I sat down and listened to what he was creating. It went something like this:

The blind man does not see

(repeats a million times)

Watch out ooo

Watch out blind man

Blind man does not see

But God helped him

the blind man is better

Blind man does not see

...

Jesus died on a cross

When Jesus died on the cross

Then the soldiers get Jesus

Soldiers hurt him with nails

He was put in a tomb

Jesus is Alive...

We are Prego! Our children's reaction...

2010-07-19T21:34:00.000-07:00

Well...I am anyway. If you don't know...

now you know.

I am 10 weeks along, and ALREADY poking out. Hence the announcement.

Feeling sick, dizzy, nauseas, but alright. I know sounds impossible to enjoy.

But it is...

If you didn't know, we just sent adoption papers and two months later...I am prego with number four. Be that that is we current situation AND blessing we are holding off the adoption. Obviously.

We broke the news to the kidos and this was their reaction:

B: (In Finnish) Do know if it is a boy or a girl?

M: No we don't know.

B: Oh, I know! God does! Maybe we should ask Him.

T: (Also in Finnish) I know! I know! First there was P, and now there is the second one!

M: Well not quite...

P has no idea being almost two. All of a sudden she wants me to pick her up more and kick and smoosh my belly more often. Great.

Doing well so far, thanks for the love guys!

Our Princess

2010-07-10T12:15:00.000-07:00

She waves at strangers, smiles for people, and is alot of fun.

But keep your eyes peeled. Very peeled!

Yesterday, while I was in the shower she found a pen and tattooed both her arms.

We then went to a store, and while I was not looking, she found an After-Sun lotion bottle from a clearance table and applied it to her legs (at least she did it properly). With a smile and pride on her face she says, "Look momma!"

Today...

she finds B's lip balm and decides to emulsify her whole body: hair, face, arms and legs.

While doing workbooks with the boys she sneaks to the balcony (It is so stinkin' hot here so we leave the door open, but she KNOWS that is a big no-no without mommy or daddy) Pulls a chair up to the edge, stands on it, and starts waving to the neighbors. I freak out and am terribly surprised how fast she did that.

I am a little tired today...but really she still stinkin' cute!

A Child's Eyes

2010-06-15T06:56:00.000-07:00

P and I returned to the U.S. consulate this morning because Mrs. Housewife forgot her passport (You need it to enter you see). Yes, I was so proud that I had the kids ready and dressed waiting for Mikko to take us and then...no passport. So I returned so I could sign paper to indicate I was the mother of B, in order for him to get his new passport (Children renew their passport every five years...sniff sniff).

ANYWAY, as we were escorted to the waiting room by a Finnish security guard passing a U.S. Marine to allow us in the room. (Yes, High security). I sat down near another Finn as P found kids books on the table. P turns around and sees Benjamin Franklin sitting behind me on the wall and says, "Mama, kato, Ukki!" (Mommy, Look Grandpa!).

Stripping Rhubarb

2010-05-31T12:16:00.000-07:00

"Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come." 2 Corinthians 5:17

Just had a mini revelation concerning our marriage and what God has been doing in our marriage and life in Christ over the years. Someone commented that they wanted to hear more about "other things" we went through. To be honest there are quite a few things we have been through together. Not all bad. Not all good. You see life is a mess.

Back to my "aha" moment if you will...

I just received a large batch of rhubarb from my neighbor and decided to make some jam with it. Before hand I washed and then proceded to strip of peel if you will the top part of the skin (As I had been instructed). I thought, wow, this is like Christ when He makes a new creation. Take off the old, put on the new.

I have been reading to the children the Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis to my kids at night (which sometimes I think maybe I am the only one interested in it). One might see it as just a children's book, but if you look closer you will find powerful illustrations of Christ in the character of the Lion, Aslan.

Anyway before preparing the rhubarb jam I was reading the chapter from the Dawn Trader, How the Adventure Ended. Eustace (the cousin of Susan,Peter Edmund, and Lucy) decided to get some rest and left the group after getting off the ship to survey the island. He had already been a real pain up to this point in the story and ends up finding a dead dragon near a cave. He enters a cave and finds massive treasure and decides to keep it himself. He puts on a bracelet and falls asleep only to wake-up as a dragon!

Let's fast forward to the part where he turns back into a dragon and tells Edmund how he got "un-dragoned" through Aslan, the Lion:

So at last we came to the top of a mountain I'd never seen before and on top of this mountain there was a garden - trees and fruit and everything. In the middle of it there was a well. I knew it was a well because you could see the water bubbling up from the bottom of it...The water was as clear as anything and I thought if I could in there and bathe, it would ease the pain in my leg. But the lion told me I must undress first...I was just going to say that I couldn't undress because I hadn't any clothes on when I suddenly thought that dragons are snaky sort or things and snakes can cast their skins. Oh, of course thought I, that's what the lion means. So I started scratching myself and my scales began coming off all over the place. And then I scratched a little deeper and , instead of just scales coming off here and there, my whole skin just started peeling off beautifully, like it does after an illness, or as if I was a banana. In a minute or two I just stepped out of it. I sould see it lying there beside me, looking rather nasty. I t was a most lovely feeling. So I started to go down into the well for my bath.

"But just as I was going to put my feet into the water I looked down and saw that they were all hard and rough and wrinkled and scaly just as they had been before. Oh, that's all right, said I , it only means I had another smaller suit on underneath the first one, and I'll have to get out of it too. So I scratched and tore again and this underskin peeled off beautifully and out I stepped and left it lying beside the other one and went to the well for my bathe.

"Well, exacty the same thing happedned again. And I thought to myself, oh dear, how ever many skins Have I got to take off? For I was longing to bathe my leg. So I scrathded away for the third time and got off a third skin, just like the two others, and stepped out of it. But as soon as I looked at myself in the water I know it had been not good.

Then the lion said-but I don't know if it spoke-'You will have to let me undress you.' I was afraid of his claws, I can tell you, but I was pretty nearly desparate now. So I just lay flat down on my back to let him do it.

"The very first tear he made was so deep that I thought it had gone rightj into my heart. And when he began pulling the skin off, it hurt worse than anything I've ever felt. The only thing that made me able to bear it was just the pleasure of feeling the stuff peel off. You know-if you ever picked a scab off a sore place. It hurts like belly-oh but it is fun to see it coming away."...

" Well he peeled the beastly stuff right off-just as I thought I'd done it myself the other three times, only they hadn't hurt- and there it was, lying on the grass: only ever so much thicker, and darker, and more knobbly-looking than the others had been. And there was I as smooth and soft as a peeled switch and smaller than I had been. Then he caught hold of me - I didn't like that much for I was very tender underneath not that I'd no skin - and threw me into the water. It smarted like anything but only for a moment. After that it became perfectly delicious and as soon as I started swimming and splashing I found that all the pain had gone from my arm. And then I saw why. I'd turned into a boy again. You'd think me simply phoney if I told you how I felt about my own arms. I know they've no muscle and are prettly moluldy compared with Caspian's, but I was so glad to see them."

"After a bit the lion took me out and dressed me--"

"Dressed you? With his paws?"

"Well, I don't exactly remember that bit. But he did somehow or other: in new clothes - the same I've got on now, as a matter of fact..."

...

Is that not an amazing illustration of how God transforms a dead-live person and gives them new life through His son, Jesus Christ?! Eustace tries over and over again to make himself healed and new. But he can't. He just can't without the true power that comes from the Holy Spirit. Amazing. Aslo reminded me from the scriptures about the parable Jesus shares about "worthlessness of self-reformation":

"When an evil spirit comes out of a man, it goes through arid places seeking rest and does not find it. Then it says, 'I will return to the house I left.' When it arrives, it finds the house unoccupied, swept clean and put in order. Then it goes and takes with it seven other spirits more wiked than itself, and they go in and live there. And the final condition of that man is worse than the first. That is how it will be with this wicked geration." (Matthew 12:43-45).

So nothing we do will makes us clean apart from Christ! The good things believers in Christ do take on is an overflow of Grace that God has given them. This is joy over flowing. The scales are taken off my back and the my outerskin has been stripped by Christ. He has given me a new heart, opened my eyes and put on new clothes so that I would be in no way ashamed on that day that I stand before Him!

Concerning marriage, I am grateful that both Mikko and I are alive in Christ. If we were unequally yoked (one a believer, the other not, or both not believers), our marriage would have been much more difficult with a lot less truer peace to restore us in bumpy times. Much more, it would have been less of a beautiful picture God intended to give: Christ and his love for his church shows when the Husband is faithfully loving and caring for his bride.

I know it seems I was cramming two messages in one. But dear reader who is considering marriage, or is dating . Don't consider, just believe me, your potential spouse needs to be sold out for Christ. Not perfect. Heh. But puts his priority need to be in the Lord and not Himself. Be blessed.

Another Use: Baby Powder Bottles

2010-05-23T13:02:00.000-07:00

I bring you this interuption brougt to you by (see picture above). So until I continue or figure out where I am going with this "Marriage and Hell" series, here something I discovered. I just recently went through our bathroom and realized I had two large bottles of baby powder and two small ones.

WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WITH ALL THIS?

Besides powdering my girl's bum during diaper changes and dusting my white pair of VANS with it (which I only did in jr. high, don't ask why).

Ashamably, one bottle is from when B was born. Yes, my five, year old.

And yes, I brought it overseas. Don't laugh.

The other large bottle a volunteer left. So I did some research to find out what I could use it for. Let us just say the links pretty much all said the same thing.

Here is what I decided to do:

1. Sprinkle it over my matts and then vacuum over them.

2.When the bottle is empty, I am going to dismantle it and put it in the dishwasher. Then I am going to put flour in it and use it to dust pastries, bread, tortillas, rolls, etc.

Are there any other interesting uses for this?

Dear Tuija Täti

2010-05-04T09:28:00.000-07:00

Dear Tuija Täti,

It was great to see your home for the first time last weekend. I decided to leave your "homewarming" gift in the shower. Or was it global warming...?

Love Your Neice, P

Coupon Collectors Eat Your Heart Out!

2010-04-29T21:11:00.000-07:00

Here is some humor for your weekend! In Finland, I may be lucky to find coupons in the phone book, rarely in ads, and sometimes 5 euros off our groceries (a grocery store's frequent buyer's card). I had to go to Spain to get these deals!

One bottle of shampo in Finland = 8 euros/ For shampoo AND conditioner in Spain = 7 euros!

Mouth wash in Finland = 9-12 euros/ Spain = 5 euros!

Cocao Butter that is rarely found and if so = expensive/ Spain 2 euros

Mikko's loafers = 30 euros!

My shoes = 15 euros!

Not shown: Ibuprofen in Finland = not found but pain meds are 5 plus/ Spain = 2 euros!

I feel like I won the lottery! Ha ha ha

Marriage and Hell Part II

2010-04-27T20:33:00.001-07:00

"If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me." (Mark 8:34)

[I will be intermingling our vacation in Spain and this series. Wish I had more consistent time to blog, but this is what you get!]

Thoughts that come to this title: first years of marriage...tears...stomach cramps...yelling and screaming. Yes, that was Mikko and I. This included emotional and physical pain. Keep in mind I had yet to have counseling from my past. We are believers in Christ, yes...

Bad habbits of ours: Mikko would bring up issues at 10 p.m., as a result I would cry because of my longing to sleep, he would just lay there with his light on and stare with a look of expecting me to know what was on his mind. Quite annoying...

Me? Crying myself out of the situation. I felt he was the enemy quite often. I had irrational ways of explaining my emotions. He often had answers that proved he was right, which left me helpless to explain my heart or reasoning.

Now if you told me then the above verse from Mark then, I would tend toward a rebelious spirit. Because afterall, Mikko was the enemy, why would I humble myself and serve him? Yeah Yeah, Christ died for me and I will serve Him in anyway except helping my husband...

This year's yearly meeting, which is now called a fram, was truly encouraging and am grateful to God what he has done in our marriage. Mikko and I understood more that, "Our life is not our own." in a truly healthy way. That reference was made toward family and parenting, but we agreed more specifically our marriage too. We now both want to help each other acheive our highest potential for how God has wired us.

Before marriage we were warned of the divorce rate several times. I remember the people who mentored us on this: Rick York, Pastor Matt Brown, and our marriage counselor, Roy Ronveaux. One of them told us their goal was to make sure we didn't get married! Just talked to a friend and she remembered in her couples group how the shared the divorce stats quite clearly. She said that three couples in that group have already divorced! Our first small group, whom we dearly treasure and love today, are having similar results.

I was telling Mikko how I wished more was explained about how Christ loved his church and gave his life for them. Jesus was and is truly committed to his followers. He will never leave us, nor forsake us. He is for you believer. That is why I don't know how some couples do it without Christ. Sad thing is, believers are divorcing too. Frustrating. "I am not in love anymore." "I don't want to be married anymore." This paragraph is difficult to write, because life can be really messy. I know.

There was alot more that happened in those first years of marriage. Like my tendency to hide food which lead to my bulemia while living in Finland 2001-2002. I was also ill equipped to communicate. What seemed like Mikko wanting to argue, was really more his way of wanting to challenge me and be more intimate with me (the way he is wired). More on this in the next post. If you have questions please feel free to ask!

Spain Trip Part One

2010-04-20T05:45:00.000-07:00

Here is a little picture teaser for the grandparents. Keep in mind my in-laws are stuck in Spain waiting because of this whole crazy airplanes not taking off due to the lovely volcano God ochestrated.

We were planning to come home Thursday, however as we came from Barcelona (via Malaga) to Copenhagen we found that that was not happening. While playing in the family play area, Mikko arrives telling the marvelous news. We get free taxi tickets to a hotel nearby. We stayed there two nights, and was hoping to stay with a pastor and his family (of which he hosted us for the afternoon in his lovely home) if we were stuck indeffinately. However, the following day a bus was offered to Stockholm (mind you that is like driving from Riverside to San Fransisco). We stayed one night in a marvelous room, I MEAN MARVELOUS ROOM (thank you Uncle Danny for SAS), it was like am studio appartment with EVERYTHING except a washmachine. The next day we were told the generator and engine overheated JUST as we arrived at the hotel al midnight! Thank you Lord for protecting us! Took the same bus and arrived at the boat dock in Stockholm and the bus overheated again, Thank you Lord once again. Spent the night on the boat and made it home! All rooms and transportation was paid for (even some meals) except when we got on the boat and paid for a cabin (of which we were told there was none) Thank you Lord once again (we almost slept in a conference room, which I did not mind, we were going home).

The kids were great and we even got to serve and share the good news with someone. More pics and stories to come...

10 Years of Marriage and Hell

2010-04-10T11:30:00.000-07:00

[After barfing EVERTHING, I was thinking, "Wow, what if this is what Hell is like!" I have been wanting to post this for along time, with prayer, wasn't sure of it's right timing. I think now is good]

[I wrote this before the previous events happened. It was laid heavey on my heart. I was at Nantilla Spa with Mikko]

Did I get your attention? I've had a lot on my mind lately. Been actually praying what to write here on housewife. As I have been reading Revelation, my heart has been burdened for several friends and most of my family members. The main principle I grasped from Revelation is this: Worship the Lamb (Jesus) or the beast (Satan). One day, whether you believe it or not, we will give God an account of how we lived on this earth. Listen carefully, the Creator of the Universe makes no mistakes. YOU were meant to read this, will you continue with me for a moment? Jesus is wonderful and I can't imagine living without Him. I am ever so humbled to know that He took my life of sin (which includes EVERYTHING from lust, idolatry, bitterness, jealousy, etc.) These things I daily need to check myself before God, yet understanding that Jesus has victory over my sin and made me righteous, helps me to continually reconcile all things to God who made me and knows me. He has been sooo patient with me and thus I share a wonderful story of what God has done in both Mikko and I in the last 10 years of our marriage. Many of you have lost hope or are quite opposite and think is quite fine without the Lord, or even without the committment to HIM. Believe me, without Jesus. Life is pretty meaningless. Hang in there and keep reading.

Please, please, please repent, turn from your sin and confess it to God. I know friend...not tactful, not politically correct, maybe even rude. You have no idea what this means. You cannot truly love until you turn from sin and give your life to Jesus. If you don't, then there is the reality of Hell where there is weaping and nashing of teeth. I would not wish that on ANYONE. I want to save you from this. I cannot, but God can. Trust me, or rather, trust God! "Heidi, your a freak!" Look, when the Holy Spirit woke up this dead person (me) I was like new! I was not perfect, nor still am, yet growing toward holiness. There is complete freedom once you realized you have been trapped by sin and trusting yourself. Remember, God is Sooo patient! Once God opens your eyes to your sin, He will walk with you in your ups and your downs. Even when life seems totally hopeless, trust Him, He will see you through.

His grace is more than you can ever imagine! Man, tough times are like firey furnaces, persevere, God is faithfull. 2,000 years ago Jesus came in human form. Fully God and fully man. Preached the kingdom of God, Repentance from sin and belief in the Son of Man (Jesus). He was sentenced to death on cross, burried and rose again on the third day to make true what the Bible says about Him!. He commanded his disciples to go and make disciples, baptizing them in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit and teaching them all that Jesus commanded (Matthew 28). For us wretched believers, this should be of great encouragement. In fact, we should preach the Gospel to ourselves everyday!

Do you want that hope? That freedom from sin? That wonderful closeness with the Savior of the world, Jesus? Then pray with me. This is not THE prayer, in fact, after my prayer and you really mean it, pray anything else that is on your heart. Let me know that this is what want and I will be praying for you and would love to help you find a Bible-believing fellowship where you can grow and have others pray and support you. The next blog post of how God moved in our marriage. Be blessed today.

"Lord, I am a sinner. Help me today to turn from my sin and live life a new through your son, Jesus. Forgive me for all I have done against you. Thank you for Jesus dying on a cross for my sins and raising again to new life. Help me to grow and listen to the Holy Spirit. Help me to find friends who believe in You and want to help me grow in this life through your word. In Jesus name, Amen."

What does that have to do with your marriage? That is the second part, stay posted...

Friendship

2010-03-25T22:03:00.000-07:00

I don't have anything to offer for listening to this. Just have to say I heard this while running the other day. It was funny, because I had just been discussing about friendships with several people and what it means to be a friend. Mark Driscoll from Mars Hill Church discusses friendship.

I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW YOUR FEEDBACK HERE, IT TAKES OVER 45 MINS. TAKE THE TIME:

Valentines Cookie Test

2010-03-06T10:34:00.000-08:00

I wanted to attempt some cookies, in which I was inspired by Andrea Armstrong of Riverside, California. I knew her from Sandals and even subbed for her class a few times. Thank you Andrea for the tips! Although I wanted to use the meringue powder, I had to settle for using old fashion royal icing which you can google.

Little House on the Prairie

2010-02-25T10:57:00.001-08:00

My better half, the Mikko-nator, when he is not parsing greek verbs, reading, listening to deep theological sermons, counseling, pastoring, adminastrating, doing a financial report, work report, chasing our kids AND the neighbor kids in the yard ect. We are doing this...

Birthdays and Mummo

2010-02-22T20:45:00.000-08:00

Today my son turned five! We are so blessed to have him in our life! He is full of life and loves to play the most creative things!

February 15th was Ukki's (Mikko's father) Birthday. We has him over for a salmon dinner. We love you Ukki!

On a sad note, Mikko's grandmother (Ukki's mother) passed away Sunday. Please pray for us and the other surviving family members as we process these things.

LOVE GOES: New Ministry to Mommies

2010-02-12T21:56:00.000-08:00

I can't say this is an official work of the church plant here in Espoo, however the ladies are greatly involved. But I can say that it is something I really like to do.

"Well what is it?!" you ask.

Gift baskets or Gift bags to mommies with new babies. (not old ones ha ha ha)

The purpose: to have the opportunity to show the love of Christ, how it overflows in the life of the believer to share His love to others in a practical way.

The idea is if possible, to first provide these things for the local body (if someone were to be impregnated) and then to the community around us.

For example, Sally (names have been changed to protect the innocent, [insert cough here]) from the church plant mentioned her friend. I thought this would be a great opportunity to share the love of Christ and be creative! Just recently I received an email and two pictures from Sally saying how surprised, shocked and grateful (at least that is what I understood in Finnish) they were.

How do I round up these items?

1. I ask the local body of believers

What better way to see the church giving what they already barely have. Most of our church-plant fellowship are students and/or poor. Some with families of their own. STILL, they are giving and donating! Plus it helps us rid of the things we don't need anymore!

2. Donations

Tell businesses your church is helping mothers with gift baskets and bags. I did this with Mikko's step-sister. She works for Kipling/Jansport distributers. She was able to give me five really nice bags for FREE! They make great diaper bags and we would just stuff them. She also works for Korres, a natural beautycare shop that is based in Greece with many stores around the world (ie. Helsinki). I got some nice samples for the mothers too!

3. I look out for sales and mega discounts

It is not cheap to live here. Really. I save on costs and wait till JYSK has their crazy sale on baskets and blankets. The basket I got for Sally's friend was 75% off because this one store was closing, it was 5 euros!

4. Takes 10 euros (13.63 dollars) for a bag of diapers. I prefer to buy the Muumi diapers because they are some-what kinder to the environment than the normal throw-aways.

So what do you think? I am loving it!

Where on Earth are We?

2010-01-30T00:49:00.000-08:00

10th Anniversary Fun

2010-01-11T11:15:00.000-08:00

So...I've been wanting to share so much that has been on my heart. But for now here were some moments from my anniversary. I would like to make a special note to my non-fb friends Judith and Taina! Love you girls! Thanks for my postcards Judith! And thanks for cleaning up Mikko's feet!

So...for a ten year wedding anniversary I got Mikko a pedicure!

Shooter Found Dead

2009-12-31T22:41:00.000-08:00

Seems like I can't get on to fb at all. Just so everyone knows the shooter was found dead in his own home. He had shot his "ex-girlfriend" before the Prisma event happened. We are literally quite close to where she was living. Your prayers are continually needed for Finland, it's leaders and law making concerning guns, and how we may reach out to our community in a time when people tend to fear. Last night, in my opinion, were less fireworks than previous years. Normally, they tend to go all day before midnight and continue through the night in our sleep and the next day (which are serious ones and quite illegal where I am from mind you). Maybe it was just me, but I thought yesterday was quite somber. Thank you for your continued prayers.

Four People Shot and Killed in one of our Neighborhood Markets

2009-12-31T03:34:00.000-08:00

Four people were shot in a Mall that we go to often. It was in Prisma, a large grocery store. I am ever grateful to all the family members and neighbors who called and asked where we were. We were safe at home, it could have been us. It was a jealous man after a woman who worked there. Please pray for the families of those dead and the man who is at this moment loose somewhere in Finland. A neighbor said police were walking around our building with serious guns. She was certain they were just covering the ground in search of the man. Mikko is out and about with bibles, and tracts, to see if he can talk with someone. I have been feeling heavy in my heart lately concerning my lost friends, I will post later, meanwhile here is one link to the story and I am sure there are several other links...Don't worry about us, faithfully pray that the Good News of Christ would go forth!

Snow Brightens the Darkness

2009-12-18T11:16:00.001-08:00

Among the plethora of things that swims in my head longing to be written...I must say the darkness has gotten to me this year.

Winter 2006, I gave birth to T.J. and my mind was on a high considering it was our first year on the field (with kids). I was focussed on caring for two wee ones.

Winter 2007, I was still pretty excited, I got baby fever and what do you know, I am pregnant! Somewhere between here and the following winter my "wake-up light" breaks...poo.

Winter 2008, I had little Pea to take care of plus two excited boys, life was busy, but I was still able to play more with the boys while Pea slept in the pram.

Winter 2009, Pea is EVERYWHERE, I am having to do homeschooling, nap schedules, potty, EVERYTHING by the clock. This got the best of me and I found myself having much difficulty getting out of bed. I tell like a million people I miss my "wake-up" light and then Mikko pipes, "So are you saying you'd like a wake-up light for Christmas?"

Among other things, God has been doing some pretty amazing things around us. He has aloud me to experience and see young women, who have connections with the church plant, share their lives with me and I am excited about what God will do with each of them.

There are also stresses that come with churchplanting and Mikko has done an outstanding job keeping me out of all the details. He knows I want to sleep well at night and so encouarages me to keep loving on our kids and training them in the Lord. I'm cool with that!

I am also learning lately that I need to relax more, take myself less seriously and God more so.

About a week ago I locked us up inside because we were coughing and B had a serious fever. (Of which he rarely ever has!). Midweek through he expressed that he will feel better if it snowed "lots and lots". So we prayed and few days later...It snowed! It does make a difference in Helsinki if there is snow...mommy is happy anyways!

Future Music Artists?

2009-11-11T10:25:00.000-08:00

A few times a week, B, my oldest will break-out in song and create the most AMAZING tunes! One time he went on and on with his mini-guitar like it was the rockinest (can I say that?) song ever. I then took a pen and paper and listened arounded the corner from the kitchen to write down what he kept repeating. This was actually the first time I heard him make-up a song in English. It may not make sense but here it goes:

We can know Jesus (3x)

and your hearts are not right...

Don't be afraid God is here!

You're not hard to find...

Your Gospel Story!

You can get better,

Sleep on a bed,

and go outside!

A song I heard him sing before this was about Adam and Eve in Finnish (This is with my translation):

God made Adam and Eve

Oh Yah! Oh Yah! Oh Yah!

He told them to take care

That's right That's right

Not to eat from that tree

True dat! True dat!

But they didn't listen

Too Bad! Too Bad!

So God Disciplined

That's right! That right!

The one I like as well was the one he made-up with the tune of "KUM BAY YA" (Note: Jumala(You-Malla) is "God" in Finnish:

Jumala, My Lord, Jumala...

The one that tops the cake is one T sang in Finnish:

Who made Lighting McQueen, Lighting McQueen, Lighting McQueen?

Who made Lighting McQueen?

Our Heavenly Father!

Great Wedding Photos: Eat Your Heart Out OMA!

2009-10-21T10:47:00.000-07:00

My Trip to Sweden: Foreign Particles and Yacuzzies

2009-10-19T10:24:00.000-07:00

Elina and I leaving Sweden back to the boat.

On the way into the "old town" I met this guy. Mikko told me not to pick-up on any dummies...does this count?

Breakfast buffet on the boat nearing the dock. Beautiful villas and homes on the many little islands surrounding the main land, bright sunshine and clear skies!

We couldn't stop joking about this sign in out bathroom, "Don't throw foreign particles in the WC-bowl."

Elina modeling our pink "wc-bowl".

AAAHHH, no diaper changing, pushing milk in a pram up a hill, or slaving in the kitchen...at least for two evenings.

In no particular order here is my boat trip to Sweden with my dear friend, Elina. She made me do it and Mikko accepted the task of caring for our little ones for two nights. Thank you babe! The trip was hilariously fun. We mostly ate at the buffet and stayed in our room playing "Fallen Cities" talking our brains off. No due harm was done except two short dark haired guys tried to say hello to us while we were wanting to see the beautiful night sky, get off my nerves please! One drunk Swede touched my arm in the lift as he was trying to talk to Elina, as soon as the lift opened we jetted straight for the buffet! Hmph! I was ready to wack him one! Never-the-less, we were safe and protected by the hand of God! On our way off the boat to the "old town" the Swedish police had stopped a woman dressed in mens clothing. She was obviously drunk and in Finnish yelled, "Why am I always the victim?!" It ripped my heart in half and I wanted to hold her hand because there were no other women around except the cleaners. Ofcourse she probably stole something, or started a fight. Who knows. I battled inside if I should have asked if I could be with her until a female officer arrived. I thought maybe I would have been an inconvienience for Elina trying to get into business not my own. That is probably the only part of the trip I didn't like, because I knew that woman was broken hearted. Despite my heart bleeding to help her, I continued on and regret it. Lord has forgiven me, but her face is on my heart often...Our last evening on the boat we were in the sauna, jacuzzi, and steam sauna like forever! Laughing our heads off like two teenage girls. One of the signs was in Finnish, Swedish, and English, however they spelled "Jacuzzi" with a "Y" instead of a "J". Our laughing continued...and still does over this stupid thing. ANYWAY...Did we adventure the museums and absorb the wonderful history of Swedish royalty? Ofcoarse NOT! We went shopping...it was sooo much more fun.

Non-realistic Living in Reality

2009-10-13T12:03:00.000-07:00

I often think I should stop blogging. Then something stirs in me. Once in awhile I have deep desires to write. I love to journal and often find it poetic and theoropeutic. My life is upside now that I have 3 lovely, delightful, children who pilage our cupboards and suck the milk out of Valio...and myself.

I think how wonderful it would be to sit on a white sanded beach in the warmth of the sun and journal my hearts desires. Heidi, you are in Finland and it has already snowed in the northern parts!

Right, right.

Sooo, where am I going with this? I make unrealistic plans for the week. Some weeks are good, some are bad. I plan meals and school and sometimes 20 projects and think it is completely reasonable.

Not really.

I think I sometimes confuse my life with Southern California paced lifestyle where I used to take B all around Riverside and do the bulk shopping, coupon shopping, dry cleaners, and playdates all in one day. After that I would not have to bulk shop for awhile nor go to the store during the week. Perhaps I look at that and try to transfer it onto my 3 children who all talk and all have opinions to some extent (Yes, even P).

I forget that they are half-Finnish with unique individual personalities with language needs etc. I walk them EVERYWHERE I go. I don't think an automatic van would answer my need to get everything done. They need me. This is Finland, it is just different and my circumstances are the way they are.

I am daily laying my plans to His feet saying: Lord, help me, you know me better.

Lord, plan my day.

I noticed, lately that I will say that prayer and then go on my way, doing things, MY WAY. Don't get me wrong, housework needs to get done. It is important...but not most important. I love what I do, yet sometimes I plan for guests and hobbies and put it over fun time with the kids. Too many older mothers tell me life is short. Enjoy them when they are young. I think I need to listen to that.

It is ok to make my lists, but to really be okay with letting some of those to-do things go is not the end of the world. I sometimes get "creative" and let people do it, or delegate tasks. Or just tell myself: I can't do it, be okay with it.

One morning, for example, I wanted to visit three shops that were on the same street. I ended up only seeing one because I had to catch the bus and go home to feed the kids. When I am with the kids and I mean WITH the kids, we have fun.

This verse has come up more often for me while here in Finland, hope you are encouraged too.

"Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." Matthew 11:28-30

Writer's Block: Your Opinion Please...

2009-09-21T11:39:00.000-07:00

So I have a plethora of things to share, yet I don't know where to start. Could you help me, or at least remind me of what I wanted to write about? Help. Thanks.

Cry or Laugh, you choose...

2009-09-20T11:40:00.000-07:00

You think I'm brave for having come to Finland. You think I have sacrificed so much to be with Finnish people, eat their food, enjoy their silence, sweat in their saunas...But you have to read this! I was crying and laughing at the same time. Here are some folks we know who have gone through alot lately. Please read.

P's First!

2009-09-07T11:38:00.000-07:00

Didn't have a camera, so in no particular order...here is some of P's party! Neighbors and family came, once again too many shoes in the door way!

Boys enjoying the Liimatta side of the family.

Birthday girl enjoying t's playset.

Hangin' out on the balcony during the party.

T showing P how properly bathe a doll.

Mom opening presents while P plays with paper.

Mom presenting the cake.

P owning the cake. Happy Birthday!

Living simply...

2009-08-16T11:13:00.000-07:00

I appreciate folks who desire to live simply. They don't seem so be destracted by stuff or the constant need to accumulate. They just seem content. The other weekend Mikko and I took the kids to a flea market and found treasures full of things. I thought, "Wow, I could totally shop this way!"

Let me remind you, I am in Finland and my family is in the states. Many friends too. Alot of them are struggling to make ends. Money is tight with many in the states. It is somewhat affected here in Finland. Cutbacks, lay-offs, etc. But most my neighbors seem to be surving.

I think of my parents and pray that my father is able to get a good job. I think the economy is hurting them quite a bit. My dad sent an email wishing he could see us again this summer. His grandaughter turns 1 and my mom and dad just can't come.

I bummed, yes. But the other day I got this facebook message asking for personal prayer. A sweet friend she is and so I keep her nameless. Here is what she wrote:

As some of you may or may not know, my husband and I have decided to make some BIG life changes to get out of debt. Between the two of us, we have about $70,000 in student loan debt. And with the big expensive Honda and the nice bedroom ranch we are living in, we were going to pay those loans off by about....2050.

Tired of living check to check, tired of never getting anywhere on our student loans, tired of the anxiety associated having more month than money left, we decided to get RADICAL.

So, we are getting rid of the Odyssey. Instead, we paid cash for a used van that is safe and reliable.

We also recently accepted a property management position with a company in town. In lieu of rent and utilities, we are going to live-in manage an apartment building by the old campus. We get a sprawling two bedroom apartment to live in, and someone else pays our rent.

In the meantime, we are hiring a property manager for our house and are going to lease it - which means someone else pays our mortgage.

Between the house and van, we are freeing up about $1800 a month to put toward debt. Plus whatever I make with my freelance gig. It is truly amazing.

God has orchestrated everything - from getting us the position to finding us the right van. We surrendered everything to him and he guided us straight and true - it truly has been an amazing journey.

My request is that you pray for me to have the courage and the perserverance to stay right with God on this one. It is easy to get bogged down in the details or overwhelmed with the paperwork. It is easy to just do what is comfortable and stay in our house, forever worried about money and a slave to our debt. Pray for me to have supernatural strength to work through the moving and downsizing.

Will you do that for me? I would really, really appreciate it.

Blessings to all of you. I love you guys and miss many of you!!

Traditional Mat wash once again!

2009-07-27T21:00:00.000-07:00

It's been two years...here I go again cleaning our mats. Beautiful weather, sunshine, and a nice wind to dry them! Thanks Anneli, it was fun!

The kitchen mat is often the dirtiest! Here she is scrubin' away!

Me hangin' out by the sea with our mats dryin'.

Soak mat, then scrub, then soak again. (We used a natural pine soap)

Headin' for youth camp today, looks like rain in the forecast. Boo. Pray for the youth and that God would be glorified in their lives. Pray for boys and myself as we do school and fun together. Pray for Mikko as he teaches and hangs out with the youth. Will you do that? Thanks.

Old and New Testament Finnish/English Bible is here!

2009-07-23T08:05:00.000-07:00

I am pretty excited, at the International camp I met up with Noora (who last minute, said she would get a kitchen staff for the camp and rocked it!). Her father owns a Christian bookstore in Jyväskylä and mentioned that Pipliaseura was coming out with a whole Finnish/English bible. The English version is NIV and the Finnish updated 1992 version. You can see the colors at:

Bible.fi

Go ahead and take a look inside!

Cool daddy-o, I get mine at youth camp next week.

Neener-neener-neener!

Back in the Summer Swing of Things

2009-07-14T10:58:00.000-07:00

Greece was great! We are ever grateful for those who pray for us and support us. Our first week we were with collegues for refereshment, music worship, great preaching, fellowship, etc. Our field is changing and revamping what they are doing so it was also saying goodbyes to the old field. The auction did well, and Mikko bugged me to do this one skit for the talent show. I was so nervous I forgot to speak into the microphone...embaressing. Nevertheless, the boys enjoyed every moment with their class and the volunteers surely loved them. Wish I could show you the video of Barnabas performing with his class. He did awesome, so proud of God!

On a sad note, I lost my camera. Possibly stolen...boo. Also, Mikko caught a guy with the theif's hand in his pocket. Couldn't believe Mikko asked, "Dude, did you take my wallet?" He responded, "Yeh, got problem with that!" Mikko then stared him in the eyes and said, "Look, I have my wife and three children here, what are you thinking!" Woman who helped us on the metro said, "Stop, Mafia! Stop, he is mafia!". But the guy seemed to soften up and appologized. It was so loud I couldn't tell what was going on until we got off. Glad I didn't hear...

Second half of our adventure was in the heart of Athens. Walked to the Acropolis, saw Mars Hill, and toward the city. Wish I would have had time to shop...oh well. Some sweet collegues of ours went to Corinth while we watched their kids and then swapped. It was great. The kids enjoyed the beach as we ate yogurt and kebab pita. I lost like 10 pounds, seriously.

We got back home and washed up only to head to camp the following weekend. July is quite busy for us, so I appologize to those who were hoping to connect or hear from us. Right now we are deciding whether to go to So Cal or Nor Cal for fall 2010. There is alot to take into consideration. So please, pray for that. Thanx.

Going to Greece!

2009-06-20T20:42:00.001-07:00

Been so busy...keep you updated later!

Happy Summer Everyone!

BTW, Princess is walking!

Prams for Sale

2009-05-24T12:02:00.000-07:00

Selling two prams. If you are interested message me at Finland Forum.

25 Euros. Washed the cover and replaced the back. Sorry, no weather cover.

25 Euros. I had the basket repaired. All new tires except one of them is torn. This can be replaced at one of the Lastentarvike shops. Two new extra tire tubes included.

Naked, Mixed Sauna and Ooops!

2009-05-12T12:12:00.000-07:00

My husband, an amazing man, took it upon himself to send me to a spa. Ok, so he kicked me out, due to my stuburness of liking to stay at home. It was planned that I meet up with another lovely lady from the international church and head by train to a day spa!

After crying my head off and giving instructions on how to feed Priscilla Mikko tells me, "Just go, have fun. Bye." Don't worry, I got over it and happly met up with my friend to our destination!

Since I am tired, I'll have to keep this short. Basically we ate and talked well. I even slept in...yes it was possible. God was gracious to me. I also had a breast infection, fourth one that is and left with medication. I am better thank you, but that is not all.

No, it doesn't end there. My friend and I decided to go to the swimming area. At first, we thought we were so smart going on a weekday. Nevertheless, the locals come with their children after school/work. Bummer...

Anyway, we go on the slides, and various pools and back and forth to the saunas. Naked in the sauna that is. First, we proceeded to the sauna which is women only. Then my friend notices a nice steam sauna. Being that my contacts were damaged to my dismay I walked in with my glasses. She holds my hand because without glasses, I can't see and with glasses, I can't see! She sits down and guides me to my seat. At first I want to sit on her right but with a nervous, "Nooo, over here." I follow her to her left side. I can finally make out where I am and notice a rope in the middle of the sauna room. "Hmm...that's funny, is this a mixed sauna?" I really said it jokingly. My friend then says, "Umm...yes I think it is" realizing her mistake.

I slightly turn my head to the right and see a man's harry legs spread wide open next to her. To help our discomfort I tell her let's leave fast! We grab our butt sheets and cover our booties. Like that helped. Afterwards I read the sign in English and it says clearly:

STEAM SAUNA

For Both Men and Women

Lord forgive us for not paying attention! Here's your sign...

Celebrate Recovery: Finland

2009-05-08T06:57:00.000-07:00

The international church here in Finland has a wonderful lady named Mary. She will be heading the first Celebrate Recovery conference in Finland. To my understanding, the material is being translated into Finnish and is based on the the "Beatitudes" from the Bible. There will be a speaker from the States and England.

Many walks of life and struggles join this program: Alcoholism, Drug Abuse, loss of a loved one, time management, work and relational issues.

The conference will be held at the Lähetyskappeli/Mission Chapel Near the Shell station off Kehä I

Friday 8th of May 6pm

Saturday 9th of May 9-4:30

Vallikallionkuja 1

02650 ESPOO

Taken from the ESV Study Bible, Matthew 5:1-12

Seeing the crowds, o he went up on the mountain, and when he p sat down, his disciples came to him.

The Beatitudes

2 And q he opened his mouth and taught them, saying:

3 r “Blessed are s the poor in spirit, for u theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

4 “Blessed are v those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.

5 “Blessed are the w meek, for they w shall inherit the earth.

6 “Blessed are those who hunger and x thirst y for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied.

7 “Blessed are z the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.

8 “Blessed are a the pure in heart, for b they shall see God.

9 “Blessed are c the peacemakers, for d they shall be called e sons [1] of God.

10 f “Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness' sake, for u theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

11 g “Blessed are you when others revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely h on my account. 12 i Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for j so they persecuted the prophets who were before you.

Hyvää Vappua!

2009-05-01T12:53:00.000-07:00

Happy Finnish Labor Day! We stayed home with the kiddos and played soccer with a neighboring family. My neighbor laughed when she saw that I dressed up. Why not? Now, let us show off my new pillow cases...Thanks Elina!

Mikko on National Radio

2009-04-28T13:14:00.000-07:00

Mikko gave a 6 minute radio devotion on national radio this evening. Apparently they have one every evening at 6. You can still listen to it, but it will only be on-line for six days. Yes, it is in Finnish. But why not listen!

Clothe Diaper/Kestovaippa Event

2009-04-20T11:49:00.000-07:00

This Saturday and Sunday will be a huge Clothe Diaper Happening in Helsinki. My neighbor, Tiina will be selling her things there! Check her site out, she even put a little blurb in English for ya'll! Tell your friends who might be interested.

24th and 25th

10 a.m.-5p.m.

Kaapelitehdas, Helsinki

Tallberginkatu 1 C

You know you have lived in Finland too long when...

2009-04-20T06:42:00.000-07:00

4. You don't think twice about putting the wet dishes away in the cupboard to dry.

I've had to edit this post because of Heather's comment. Sorry, here is a better picture. The water on the dishes drip into the sink and the counter some. I love it, I can hide my dishes! I have a dishwasher too...

You know you have lived in Finland too long when...

2009-04-13T12:15:00.000-07:00

Here are my overly smiley half-American boys.Thanks mom for the care package!

3. When a stranger on the street smiles at you:

a. you assume he's drunk
b. he is insane
c. he's an American

Well easter has arrived and every year I think I am going to provide some grand tradition for my children and hub to look back on. After stressing about it my better half tells me that all the family wants is my time. Duh.

It makes sense, in the moment I want to show off my motherly-hot-housewife skills. But really I find that kind of difficult. I enjoy reading other's blogs. Often they have fun ideas how to have theme family nights, etc. However, I can't find myself to do that. I am creative, but I lack a vihicle and a 99cent store.

I put so much pressure on myself to do these things that I end up stressing myself and the whole family out. I am way human, I can't do everything. My boys would be happy if I played Hide-And-Seek for all day. I asked my oldest at bedtime, "B, how can I be a better mom? What can I do for you?" Do you know what he said!?

"Pray mommy." Knowing his Finnish is stronger than English I reiterated my question and still got the same answer. Sometimes I think I try to make myself super-human or omniscient and realize that that is not who I am. Sorry, if I make myself seem superior or know-it-all. I AM NOT! Jesus is, and thank God, He knows best!

It is like I don't get it that I have three young ones under four years of age. I love them and I know they need me. Any encouragement and wisdom is welcome!

Look Dad! A Joos-Grill!

2009-04-05T12:24:00.001-07:00

Scrap Award

2009-03-20T04:23:00.000-07:00

Thank you Amanda for awarding me this! This is my first Blog Award! You should check her out, she makes great felt work here in Finland!

The Rules go like this:

1. Pick 7 or so blogs that make you happy.

2. Let them know and post their names on your blog.

3. List at least 10 honest things about yourself.

I award these folks from the states:

Aunt Kristi Sue

Mann Oh Mann

Life the Wong Way

And these from Finland:

Heather's Post

The Roses

Tyylitellen

10 honest things about myself:

1. I am a hypocrite. Working on that one...more I live as a Christian, the more I see a need for my Savior Jesus.

2. I like to make people laugh. I am hilarious...at least I think so. Hei, why aren't you laughing!?

3. I have a hard time looking for Jeans. American Eagle Jeans are my friends.

4. I love to run in Finland...in the summer.

5. My husband gets me mad (madly in love too)...but most the time he is absolutely right!

6. I like taking something old, used, found, or hand down and making it into something new. I think it's called recycling.

7. I married a preaching/teacher/churchplanter and didn't sign up for it. But here I am:).

8. I use the tool box the most in this marriage. I think my grandma was the same, and my grandpa was a auto machanic!

9. I am quite practical yet, random. I am the mouse in If You Give a Mouse a Cookie.

10. It took me two weeks to write this post. (Takes time to think, for me anyway!).

You know you have lived in Finland too long when...

2009-03-15T01:48:00.000-07:00

2. As you walk past the Parliament Building in Helsinki, and see the statue is titled "Svinhufvud" you no longer read it as "Swinehead"… instead you think "What a good Swedish name!"

Quiet true. I read my neighbors lastnames on their door and now know if they are Sweedish or Finnish. Finland's two official languages are Finnish and Swedish. You have the Laplanders too...

You know you've been in Finland long when...

2009-03-07T20:51:00.000-08:00

YOU KNOW YOU HAVE BEEN IN FINLAND TOO LONG, WHEN……

1. You rummage through your plastic bag collection to see which ones you should keep to take to the store and which can be sacrificed to garbage.

I have more to come. It is far more funnier if you live here. Then you would understand my madness.

Gas Price in Finland

2009-03-06T03:38:00.000-08:00

My dad brought to my attention a good point:

"I suggested to some friends that we should have a $1 a gallon increase in the gasoline tax while gas is "cheap", about $1.70 a gallon. They all get very upset at the prospect of everything changing because "we have to have our oil!" Ironically, these are the same people who argue for a freemarket / capitalistic society, and the oil is NOT theirs.

Last week the Federal government said it may increase gas tax by 10 cents a gallon to help pay for infrastructure (roads, bridges and stuff) since they they are not getting enoungh tax revenue because gas is cheap and people are not driving as much (I know, it makes my brain hurt too). Thing is that 10 cents a gallon will mean about $39,000,000 (that's $39 Million) A DAY in increased revenue because we use an average of 390,000,000 gallons of gas A DAY in the U.S. "

So...

We drove by a benzoil station.

1.19 per Liter

"Hey that it great!"

No it's not. Do your math Heidi.

Our car holds up to 50 litres of gas. Fill the tank and pay:

59.50 Euros = $75.64

Funny thing is. No one over here is complaining about gas prices.

Why do you think so?

Finland Q&A

2009-02-27T23:26:00.000-08:00

Well God certainly has answered our prayers. We asked for interested persons to join our team in Finland to plant churches. 5 family units have answered...but at the moment we can only pick one! It is heart wrenching...we have talked and skyped with some and still need to do so with others. In the process and as in the past I have been asked several questions. So in order for me to save time I will post the questions and answers so that I can just refer them to this...Heather, please feel free to add!

Q:What are Finns GENERALLY like?

A: Most would say reserved. Many times they would tell you like it is. Not really expressive, Yet, as I become almost like one I would say they are in their own way expressive. Perhaps that is probably why they can find a smiley, loud, almost superficial in greeting American.

They like to stare. Mikko did this in California and I couldn't figure out why. It totally embarressed me when he would do this...now I know why. Sometimes, now, I find myself doing it too. In fact before New year's Eve two years ago I saw two young kids popping firecrackers near a man getting cash out of the automatic teller. I was looking at everyone else and they were just staring! I went home upset about it and told Mikko what I had seen and he said, "Well, did you do anything about it?" Doh...

Q: Is pornagraphy a huge problem? Is it more open there than it is in the U.S.?

A: Just by observance, and you can't miss it, the adverts can be quite suggestive. I am often praying for Mikko and his heart and mind to focus cause he is in the city quite often. He apprectiates it because he faces half naked women adverts at bus stops, train stations, etc. Not to mention the Kioski and the porn displayed there. Just a clue, they are not covered with brown paper or dark plastic like they are in the states.

About twice a year Helsinki holds a huge Sexabition. It is usually advertised in the paper or on a bus. I even remember a Breast Cancer advert with a woman dressed as a pirate on a sinking ship. She had a one cupped bra to go with her patched eye (pretty creative...but still, my man sees it!).

Q:What are Finns' eating patterns? Do they have different eating times?

A:I had to figure this out myself. As a mommy, I took B outside when we just moved to Finland. I was hoping to make contact with other neighbors. I would go out about 11 p.m. only to find that the neighbors were going back in to feed their kids. A typical family may wake and eat breakfast in the morning (morning poridge or cereal) send their kid to school. School aged kids may eat lunch as early as 10 or 11. They return home and have what is called "afternoon snack" then eat dinner around 4p.m. and have "evening snack " around 7p.m..

This is not for every family, it is what I hear from my neighbors. Mikko and I still feed our children like they are in California. We do have poridge in the morning, but generally have protein shakes/smoothies (yes, even in winter). I notice when we joined our neighbor and her children to the park we ate inside the community center. Everyone was taking turns using the micro while we sat with our cold sandwiches. I asked the health nurse about this and she said they reccommended 2-3 hot meals a day! Think about it...they eat several times a day anyway!

Red Chile Sauce

2009-02-27T02:41:00.000-08:00

This has been the month of Enchiladas! The boys get chicken and tortillas while we get our spice on! I mean seriously I think I am starting to miss home. I have made them twice just about every week and Mikko is NOT complaining at all. Thanks to Mari, my Scrap Comprade, she gave me some New Mexico Chile Powder (where she is from) and this recipe. I have so say, I ran out of the stuff and used a grocery store brand...huge difference!

Red Chile Sauce

1 1/2 T flour

3t olive oil

3 cloves garlic chopped

4T red chile

2 cups water (5dl)

oregano, rosemary, basil

1 beef bouillon cube (optional)

Heat oil over medium heat. Brown flour. Add red chile and brown 30-40 seconds. Add water and stir out lumps. Add garlic and spices and bouillon cube.

Let simmer on med-low heat for 15 minutes; until sauce clings to spoon.

Mari suggested tortilla chips. This is an excellent idea since I find the "corn tortillas" here to be pricey. I've added chopped onion, olives, and cheese and just layerered everything. Yummy! Enjoy.

B is Four Birthstory...

2009-02-23T04:55:00.000-08:00

Memories...Our boy is four. Can you believe it? Leanne, do you remember? Incredible...

From Journal entry February 28th Home: Mill Valley, CA
Birth: Wednesday morning at 12:42, 23rd of February, 2005 you came into this world!
About 31 hours of hard back labor and the Lord worked a miracle! Claudette and Kimberly (midwives) came...

From Journal entry March 2nd, 2005 Home: Mill Valley, CA
You sure have been sleeping well! Today at noon you and I smiled and laughed together before your diaper change and "ma-ma". The President of the seminary's wife, Anne, is visiting...

From Journal entry March 3rd, 2005
Ended up, Helen Groat, the women's ministry coordinator came over. But I suppose Anne will visit at some point. There have been so many visitors I get quite tired. I am also nervous about people getting you sick...Back to your birth:

[Prior to the midwives arriving, Mikko and I sat singing hymns pausing at every contraction. At one point, Dr. Melick (professor) arrived to pray for us. It meant so much! Also women's ministry leader, Helen Groat brought a sandwhich that I could barely eat before but swallowed the rest after!]
Once the midwives and Leanne[Leanne bought the midwives junk food because they though my snacks were too healthy] arrived the tub was set and filled with hot water. My contractions were getting quite intense in the lower back area. (These contractions started around 6 in the evening Monday! Mikko tried pushing or putting pressure points, but it didn't seem to help. Sometimes the midwives would find the right pressure points, but as the contractions intensified I thought I'd go insane!

Anyway, once in the tub[A Rubbermaid Horse trough placed in our bedroom] I was found to be dialated at six. I was asked to do different excersises and positions to change your position. Once you were in propper place you'd turn back into my hips! I was also encouraged to eat, but at this point I totally lost my appetite and refused to eat solid food. I relied mostly on sport tea, juices, water, and protein shakes.

At one point in the tub Claudette checked your heartbeat and noticed the speed...whether slow or fast, I do not remember she concluded that I was going to have a large baby. Ofcourse she didnt' tell me while I lay there in the water with Leanne patting my face with a cool wash clothe (Leanne, by the way, is a seminary student who is interested in becoming a doula) and Mikko, your father, not sure how to comfort this overwhelming sensation. "Your doing a great job." "You're doing well." [Mikko at one point said the midwives were having a party in the living room, acting silly while I sat in pain...thanks]

Once the hot water was regained in the house (we sure used alot of it!) Claudette suggested the shower...This is where I discovered pushing! [I only knew to push because Claudette told me to try. Same with our other two children...Someone had to coach me!] Prior to this I had thrown-up everything I ate. [This was after my midwife gave me a bunch of questionable homeopathic drugs...it worked anyway!] Your father was worried and asked if I was in harms way. The midwives responded with "This is a good thing!" The pain was also so exscrutiating that I thought I was dilarious, wanted to quit and go to the hospital. But I could never find myself to tell my support team this..."Keep going Heidi!"

Before the shower I was dialated to nine [After you were born I was told I was dialated to 12 on your way out! My midwife said people will tell you there is no such thing, but I surely believe her!]. "So close!" I thought, but for some reason (which I'll explain later) it took forever [3 hours of pushing]. Just as King David had written in the Psalms, many times I cried out, "Spirit of God!" I panicked a couple of times during the contractions and thought this was a silly thing we learned in our Bradley class but ofcourse desparate for comfort I moaned out.[Thank God, the neighbors moved out next door a week before, AND so did the neighbors up on a hill!]

While in the shower I squated and faced the bar or wash clothe holder, held on and alowed the hot water to soothe my back. Your father stood near me in his board shorts asking what he could do. At the same time Claudette asked me where the dryers were (There was alot of wet towels). I realized at this point I focus just like I did when I prepared for a race. I didn't want to respond to anyone pep talking me, nor did I want to respond to anyone, I think I ignored them (no offense). [She also cleaned up all my extra toxins if you know what I'm sayin'!]

Let me tell you. Amazing. We tried every stinkin' position to get you out! Finally, with my arms over your father's sittin' legs you came healthy into this world! I had no feeling in my legs but never the less relieved! I remember all the ladies and Mikko cheering me on as if I was on the last 100 meters of my race. You entered this world to Crystal Lewis singing "To God be the Glory..."

They cleaned you up, measured the biggest head my midwife ever delivered and Mikko took off with you! In a very un-Finnish like manner he ran outside and raised you up in the air yelling, "It's a boy! Praise the Lord!" The midwives exhausted cleaned the best they could. Leanne helped clean and hold you. The next day I sat outside our triplex and the Korean neighbors two doors down thought I was nuts sittin' on the steps out of my bed (I got cabbin fever alright!). I was grateful for Lisa and Audrey who helped me out (also CBU alums) and clean all my laundary and blood from the carpet and bathroom.

Barnabas I love you. I don't deserve such a sweetie. You are truly an encouragement to our family. May God use you grately for His kingdom.
To God be the Glory...

B is for Bible and B

2009-02-18T12:28:00.000-08:00

In about a week my oldest turns 4! I so can't believe that I spent 3 hours trying to squeeze the largest head my homebirth midwife had ever delivered. That's why you're so smart Bubba!

It blows my mind... God has been showing how important it is that I spend time with him. Deciding to homeschool may be best for us. When I actually get down and cover Bible, Math and Reading we both have a great time together. T.J. is playing with legos or drawing when he wants to believe that he is playing school too. Priscilla is chillin' on the balcony or suckin' on her fingers. It's not always easy, but I really enjoy it!

The above picture was drawn by himself. He said it was a crown for himself. (I was hoping he'd say for Jesus...but no.)

Yesterday, I realized he put on his winter clothes by himself, slid down the hill by himself (including cool tricks). He even offered that we go ahead of him when on top of the hill. He responds positively to direction and correction....amazing God we have. He writes his own name now and enjoys learning about God and obeying us! (Okay, he isn't perfect, but I have to say I am amazed).

He also wants to sing a song for his birthday by Dana Dirksen. You have to get her music; catchy, scriptual. We all love it!

A bible we use that many have asked about is:

The Big Picture Story Book

Enjoy!

Happy Friend's Day

2009-02-13T12:02:00.000-08:00

B celebrating with T.J. a treat from the little Asian market because T.J. went poo-poo on the potty!

Valentine shirt from my awesome MAP group! AND designer clothe diaper by my neighbor Tiina.

I like that in Finland the 14th is called "Friend's Day". I am wondering where and how and who decided that...

Our children grow so fast and they are so much fun to be with...

We miss you Opa and Oma! Every Santa-looking person we see we think it's you! Happy Friend's Day.

1001 Things it Means To Be a Mom (The Good, The Bad, and The Smelly)

2009-02-03T04:18:00.000-08:00

In this little book, by Harry H. Harrison Jr., that my mother gave me, I found something so true for me right now.

"#794. Being a mom means excercising at 6:00 a.m. while your kids are still sleeping."

Today I fed Priscilla around 5:15 a.m. got ready for the gym and slipped out the door. I need to move my tukkus or I'll be mean mommy if I don't. Oxygen to the brain really helps!

Mikko has been so overloaded with responsibilities that it was probably best for me to go then and take care of the kiddos when I got home so he could catch-up.

He sure is a great husband. I feel bad that I don't know how to drive a stick shift, anyone want to come over and teach me? Female preferably please...that means he runs alot of errands for me and even chofers us around town.

He works hard to protect his family, spend time with us and quality time with the boys. I hope he can relax during our trip to see mummo. She turns 90! When he left the house today, he had piles of stuff in his hands. I asked what he was up to (wrong question), and realized I probably shouldn't have asked. He is overwhelmed. Pray for him please!

He studies, prepares sermons, meets folks for coffee, disciples young men, evangelizes, preaches, he is the set-up team (well now B joins him Sundays), and so many other things! But he is also smart and knows when to slow down and take a break (hence taking time out to go see mummo and play in the snow with us!). I could learn alot from him, Love you babe.

Ukki and Prisca

2009-01-28T09:06:00.001-08:00

I don't know Ukki...

Alright, you are fun to be with!

Obama and Chocolate

2009-01-28T08:55:00.000-08:00

My neighbor came to my door to bring back a tupperware container and this...

her sister-in-law went to New York and thought I might like it. How did she know I liked chocolate!

Naisten Päivää-Ladies Day

2009-01-25T11:19:00.000-08:00

Sarah and her magic hands offers a massage for some of the ladies!

Ok, ladies look busy having fun!

Good conversation...

Beautiful ladies gather for a photo!

Had a "fabulous" time as my girl Tess would say...you know you often say that, don't lie.

I love having ladies at my home. I invited the new church plant and Helsinki Baptist Church. Sarah Nyström translated for me, but it seems everyone's English was better than my Finnish. We all survived my speech and had fun. These are my notes but I tend to expand and clarify while I am talking...

Tiitus 2:3-5 “niin myös vanhat naiset olkoot käytöksessään niinkuin pyhien sopii, ei panettelijoita, ei paljon viinin orjia, vaan hyvään neuvojia, voidakseen ohjata nuoria vaimoja rakastamaan miehiänsä ja lapsiansa, olemaan siveitä, puhtaita, kotinsa hoitajia, hyviä, miehilleen alamaisia, ettei Jumalan sana pilkatuksi tulisi.”

Efes. 5:22-24 “Vaimot, olkaa omille miehillenne alamaiset niinkuin Herralle; sillä mies on vaimon pää, niinkuin myös Kristus on seurakunnan pää, hän, ruumiin vapahtaja. Mutta niinkuin seurakunta on Kristukselle alamainen, niin olkoot vaimotkin miehillensä kaikessa alamaiset.”

Let me share a little about my heart for ministry….

My desire is for those that I meet is that they would have an intimate relationship with Jesus, and find their hope in His life, death, and resurrection!

Secondly, women of all ages, particularly younger woman would rise up and set a higher standard of self-control and purity in Christ Jesus.

That we would make God look good in a world that doesn’t wait, isn’t self-controlled, nor patient. My prayer is that we would trust God with his provision and be completely satisfied in Him.

It is completely natural to want a husband, but not as to compromise your purity and integrity before God. He will bless you if you wait and it’s never too late to change.

For those of us married, that we would be examples for those single or dating of what it is to be a godly wife or mother as read in Titus 2:3-5, and Ephesians 5:22-24.

As wives, we carry the primary responsibility for the day-to-day care of our homes and children. At the same time supporting our husband’s leadership role in the family.

A woman can obviously work outside the home as we see in Proverbs 31:16,18, and24:

Lastly, I pray that the church can embrace mentoring and accountability. That older woman teach younger woman. That they would let themselves be available to their daughters, and other young ladies. It may not look formal as in some program or seminar but rather meeting in homes or coffee shops. It can be done through a phone call, email, Face book, text message.

I pray that today you can relax and have a little fun. Learn from each other and be encouraged!

Pinadas and High Fevers

2009-01-20T12:04:00.000-08:00

Last Saturday the boys and I went to a 2 year old's birthday party. He is El Salvadorean/Finnish so I was pretty excited to use my horrible Spanish as I ate my pastellas and the boys kept asking for cookies and candy. Mikko came later and was able to share the Good News about Jesus to others. He clarified what I was trying to say in Finnish to others. It can be challenging for a Finn to say my son's name, but cool for me cause the Gospel gets it's foot in the door! It was cute watching B walk around the appartment in an El Salvadorean tourist-like straw hat. Our two boys are quite entertaining as P joined in smiling...

If you can take some time, pray for my neighbors. Several families are getting super high fevers. I have been under the impression that Finns take their children's temperature everyday because they always seem to know how warm their children are. I have been told that during winter time Finns easily get this way and it really affects them. The fever passes from family member to family member to where they vomit or just feel as though under the influence. Our kids are well and rarely seem to ever get fevers. And by the way, sorry for mispelling "Pinadas", I can't seem to figure out how to put the "n" with the squigally line. Until next time!

Death, Life, and ER

2009-01-09T20:41:00.000-08:00

Recently, two special people have passed away. One, my collegemate Mark Lamberth. He was in an intense bike accident and for quite some time. Unconscious he made it to his 10th wedding anniversary. His wife and son, are on this side of Heaven. He loved Jesus from what I knew of him, and seemed to have a sweet tender spirit. The pictures here are ones my mother had taken of Mikko's 30th in southern California. We'll miss you Mark! The website set up for him is:

www.prayforthelamberths.wordpress.com

I think it would do more justice to read the site than hear from myself. Secondly, an aquaintance who worked in Finland with her husband in a Bible school and International church plant passed away last Sunday of ALS disease back in the states. She didn't complete her last blog entry, you should read it. She was quite some lady! One of the most positive women I have met personally. Jesus was her best friend! I had the opportunnity to buy her cookbook she had published. Many of us in the International Church brag about having this book. She put all the best recipes she loved here and even left a note to her children and husband about the recipe. I'll try to see if there are anymore left! Meanwhile, check out her site here:

www.maralynsupdates.blogspot.com

On another note, I am getting over an annoying cough. During the wintertime I try to take the boys out every day for some sunshine or fresh air. I sometimes meet my neighbors in the yard, but lately two of them just had baby boys, so I am waiting until they are ready to come out with the wee ones! I've been able to clear alot of clutter too, which involves cleaning! In fact, I am typing with crippled fingers. Silly me, I was trying to get wax out of a candle holder to put new candles in. The end result: A trip to the ER. We had quests and they kindly watched the boys and did the dishes! The doctor that saw me for my silliness actually was in the army with Mikko! Sharing the same smelly tent and everything! After applying superglue to my throbbing right hand Mikko began changing diapers for me, and not to mention grounding me from playing with candles...

D-lady

2009-01-04T07:20:00.000-08:00

Preparing for a very important tea party...

Serving the guests...

If my son knows she is coming over, he often refers to her as "D-lady". We watched her one evening and I was doing laundry and she comes in...

Me: What chya' doin' D!?

D: Notin. (Pause)Where did you get P?

Before I could say Walmart she said she had to check on the boys.

Whew.

In another conversation...

Me: Want to be a mommy when you grow up?

D: (Thinking) Yah, when I turn 4. Not sure, but I think so.

I also had to tell her not to close the boys' door...

D: My mommy lets me, ok.

Me: Uh...no sweetie please keep it open so I can watch ya'll!

D: Geeessssee! (Gives a big sigh and opens door).

A Blessed 9 years!

2008-12-22T00:00:00.000-08:00

We celebrated our 9 years in Heinola this weekend! I am under the weather and have no Christmas shopping done. I admire my friend, Salla, who decided to do nothing. She is deffinately celebrating Christ's birth this year, but not putting pressure on baking, sending out cards and buying presents for people she doesn't like with money she doesn't have.

I've also noticed more the culture of Christmas Cleaning, Joulusivous if you will. I heard the word more and many neighbors and friends shared how important it was to clean their place to prepare for Christmas. I am trying but being sick isn't helping...

Let me digress, I did not feel so well, but sitting in a little Irish restaraunt and overnight house and listening to my husband read this poem to me was the best! I was in tears! Babe, you are gold! I can't imagine being with anyone else! You complete me!

To Heidi, the second love of my life on the 9^th anniversary

December 21, 2008

I still remember nine years ago, when I held your hand low

My whole body was sweating, my both hands also

Before two pastors and almighty God we said: “I do”

Many people witnessed it, still wondering all who?

The Lord has been faithful all these years to us

Teaching to trust just Him alone, alas

During the first years I made you cry quite often

But over the years the Lord has my heart graciously soften

Still I do not love you as our Lord does love us

But His sanctifying grace is changing us quite much

Now forgive me when I am inconsiderate towards you

Even I said nine years ago: “do you love her?” I do!

The same God that justified us years ago

Is still transforming our marriage to His Son so

You take care of our children so well

And will not them to the world sell

Last year we learnt that it is difficult to have time just between us because you cannot buy it with money

But still you are ready to give yourself to me, sweeter than honey

You gladly show subordinate spirit towards me

Even the culture yells at us against it, as we see

Just grow to fear the Lord, not anyone else, not any dummy

And that gives you the most satisfying joy to labor as a mommy

When you cast the burdens on Him alone

The most glorified is He in you, and gives you “shalom”

Find your treasure alone in the cross whether sick, bountiful, depressed, or sore

Then your life becomes “suffering but always rejoicing” more

May Jesus convict me and show the error of my tone

So that we would reflect brighter His free sovereign grace alone

He put us together to refract Christ and the church, His bride

For whom he painfully, obediently, yet gladly died

Jesus gave His life to bring glory to His heavenly Father

and to bring us back to God, who is more satisfying than any other rather

Happy 9^th Anniversary, the second love of my life

Pray that God keeps Christ as my first love, and not number five

Pray for My Friend Mark

2008-12-14T11:03:00.000-08:00

Mun koulu käverini, Mark, oli moottoripyöräonnettomuudessa. Hänen aivonsa ole vahingoittuivat. Hänellä on vaimo ja nuori poika. Lähetään commenti heidän bloggissa (pieni rukous, tai rohkaisu) suomeksi tai englaneksi. Kiitos.

www.prayforthelamberths.wordpress.com

Mark, who is actually more of an aquaintance whom I met at school, was in a motorcycle accident. His brain was severly damaged. This website will give updates on his status. He has a wife and little boy. Please leave a comment of encouragement, pray, etc.

My Uncle Wrote a Book!

2008-12-12T05:21:00.000-08:00

Besides riding his harley and doing Civil War reinactments, my uncle somehow managed to write a book! (He kant even spel!). After many years of teaching special education to "exceptional" persons (well that is what they taught me in grad-school, forgive me if there is a better term) he has written stories about Autistic and handicapped students. If you are interested help him out and buy the book on amazon.com!

Building Christmas Memories

2008-12-07T11:34:00.000-08:00

Growing up my mother had a lot of fun preparing for Christmas.

Meaning, decorating the house into something totally different. It looked great!

She even got pretty excited buying and shopping for gifts. Still does...

The baking of cookies always held a smile on her face. Ours too...

When Santa was to come she was exploding with joy! Me too...I couldn't sleep!

So...now I am an adult. I have kids and am "Lead Gift Purchaser/Gift Maker" of the family. Thanks Mikko...

Now I am making memories for my children and I often find it comes with challenges. My son doesn't even know who Santa is! Twice he has mistaken him for Noah from the Bible and my father, "Mommy, no it's not, that's Opa!" (LOL). I am wondering how to stuff the socks with stuff. We don't even have a 99 cent store...Cookies are fun except when I burn them....and decorating the tree isn't happening since they don't come out until the week before Christmas. Trillions of trees in Finland and I can't get one! (Unless I want a plastic one from the shop).

I am so crazy about this time because I feel like I HAVE to give the perfect gift to folks. Instead, I want to revert back to childhood and not feel like I HAVE to do all the work. I want my parents to give me money so I can go to the Secret Santa Shop at school pick out my dad a mug and mom a mini-photo album.

Going to this beautiful Christmas fair in Helsinki was a quite enjoyable. I did my best to buy practical fun things. I was set on looking for this really old woman I met last year. She made these rulers with terry-clothe covers. They are meant for persons who are unable to bend over and dry their toes! I remember her smile so well and was determined to see her again. However I couldn't find her. It wasn't until I bumped into this table and found these "toe-dryers". I looked up and saw a different lady. It was her neighbor! She told me that the woman had died of stomach cancer and her design was placed at the Design Forum Shop in Helsinki! I nearly cried with this woman as if we both knew her so well. The Neighbor told me she had many great-great grandchildren...large family anyway. Her smile is imprinted in my memory...

I continued to shop and found some other items to knock off my list. I met up with my English friend and in the photo above baby was wanting to eat and her son seemed a bit hungry too throwing a fit behind her...and there we are smiling!

I left for Tuija's place to visit until I took off for my mum-in-laws who made a wonderful tenderloin steak and we watched the President's fancy party on T.V. Thanks for watching the boys! And Tuija thanks for the comment, "Simple is beautiful". I can't say there was any fancy bling at Christ's birth. I'd say that is the best gift I could ever receive, God's Son.

Naisten JouluMessut

2008-11-30T21:11:00.000-08:00

It's that time of year! I am hoping to go again and see all these amazing handycrafts and get some new ideas for Christmas or Crafts etc. Last year I went with Emma, Mikko's step-sister. I met an old lady who made these covers made of terry clothe that covered a ruler. She said they were made for folks who couldn't bend over to dry in between their toes after they showered! Too cute!

This year I look forward to seeing an English gal who was in my Finnish class. She is selling her felt work their!

Catching up....

2008-11-29T06:58:00.001-08:00

Thanksgiving with the Rossi's and our new team members the Paul's!

Pikujoulu with my neighbor moms at Base. Two are expecting!

Homeschool lesson on Pulla by Raija Täti, our neighbor

The boys mastering the "snake"!

Uncle Caleb visits Finland via Cambodia!

Priscilla is tired because...

our trip to the chocolate festival in Helsinki was full of yummy!

Yah, try putting all the little ones together for a group photo!

Happy Birthday T-2!

B homeschooling P in Bible.

Monster Jam with some good friends!

Borna visits via Estonia on the way home to Turku.

Starbucks in Finland!

2008-11-26T22:46:00.001-08:00

No Joke, I heard that Starbucks is coming to finland! Here is the link that was given by my girlfriend, Elina! Thanks Elina! She said, "That is all I know "officially" but unofficially I know that it is PROBABLY opening somewhere in Alppila, Helsinki". I promised Heather the first drink would be on me!

Couch Surfing Project

2008-11-15T21:17:00.000-08:00

Our buddy and collegue Caleb just did this awsome treck starting from Cambodia, Laos, China, Russia, and now here in Finland ALL BY HIMSELF! He stayed in several guest houses and a stranger's sofa! He found the couch at "Couch Surfing Project". He tried to explain how couch surfing works and we ended up in tears of laughter. It has caught on more in Europe than in the states. For example, Germany has over 6,000 couch surfers. It's relatively safe and based on a reference/rating system. The cool part...it's totally free! So check it out!

Happy Birthday T.J., You are 2!

2008-11-14T21:54:00.000-08:00

Two years ago I gave birth to you!

Although difficult, so worth it!

You talk alot like your brother in Finglish style.

You are brave and want to try everything,

including riding donkeys and climbing high playground equipment.

You enjoy reading books and and drawing with your brother.

I still love you, even though you whine, and just tried to color daddy's Finland map and eat crayons while I tried to do this post!

I love you T.J., you are a gift from the Lord!

Here's the Scoop

2008-11-10T22:08:00.000-08:00

"Hei, go get me a diaper!"

T.J. runs to the bathroom. It's quiet, too, quiet!

He runs out with diaper.

I am suspsicious, this is what I find. At least it's next to the toilet...

Removing Mold

2008-11-10T21:50:00.000-08:00

Believe it or not you may not find me dumpster diving back in Sun City, but in Finland you will! I found a nearly brand new stroller in the dump! Only thing is...it was totally moldy! I still had hope for it so I used the following on the shade and seat cover:

Regular detergent...didn't work

Chinese laundry soap (Hand washed)...didn't work

Regular detergent with bleach at rinse cycle...didn't work

Soaked in buttermilk and washed in machine...didn't work

NOW...I am going to hand scrub this puppy in gall soap! That's right, straight from a pigs gall bladder made into soap! My mommy-friends said it works great on poopy stains. We'll see. Since it is colored fabric, I read that a lemon and salt solution may help. Otherwise I may just wash it in bleach!

We'll see if it works! Any other great ideas?

My Boys

2008-11-04T20:47:00.000-08:00

Just before I left for Finnish class I told B "B, I am going to class..."

Before I even completed my sentence he looked at me in the most calm, almost adult-like manner and said, "Yes mom, I know, listen to Anneli Mummi".

One evening during devotions Mikko was reading a Bible story. You see T.J. tends to blurt out what he knows about the story. We normally acknowledge what he says and move on. But this was something else,

"Isä! (daddy), Picadinus and Feesus!"

"Yes, that's right, Nicademus and Jesus."

Curried Carrot Soup

2008-10-30T22:34:00.000-07:00

A mom at a mothers group asked for this recipe, it's really good!

8 medium-size carrots, cut in thirds

1 medium-size onion, finely chopped

2 large garlic cloves, finely chopped

3 cups Chicken Stock (I used vegetable)

2/3 cup non-fat milk powder (think I used soy powder once)

About 1 teaspoon curry poder, or to taste

1 teaspoon low-sodium soy sauce

1 carrot, sliced for garnish, or low-fat yogurt

Method

1. Steam carots in a medium-size saucepan until tender.

2. Saute onion and garlic in a non-stick pan in 1 tablespoon of the stock until soft.

3. Plance steamed carrots and 2 cups of the stock in a blender and puree.

4. Add milk powder, curry powder, soy sauce, and remaining stock to blender. Puree until creamy.

5. Add onion and garlic mixture to blender; process 30 seconds, until purreed.

6. Return to saucepan to heat before serving.

7. Spoon into 8 bowls; garnish with carrot slices or a dollop of yogurt.

Makes about 8 (3/4 cup) servings.

Variations

Add diced tofu in Step 6.

Sprinkle with fresh parsley.

Sarchasm: Tearing of the Flesh

2008-10-29T21:37:00.000-07:00

Someone who knows me well commented (privately) that my last post was well...a little too bitter sounding. Sarchastic really. I am told the Greek word is like tearing flesh.

Ouch.

It is true I was trying to be funny, and then again serious. Truly, I would feel embarassed if I knew he read my post. Would I say it to his face?

Maybe not.

Paul told the Philippians to pray about all things (4:6)...like new playgrounds.

To make our graciousness be known to all (4:5)...like towards managers of buildings.

Not to get bitter but dwell on whatever is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, commendable, moral excellance and praise. (4:8)

After this reflection and confession of sins, the Lord gave me an idea and I will let you know how in turns out! Sorry, to be so rude folks! Forgive me...

New Play Yard

2008-10-24T11:25:00.000-07:00

Well, that was what I was hoping to get...after a nice phone call Mikko had with the manager of our building as well as my neighbor adding two cents to the idea. NO new play yard. Not even to fundraise it. We at least asked to change the sand due to a neighbor cat who is OBVISOUSLY unaware of the city law to keep all cats on a leash near the door of the house or apartment. Secondly our tire swings are tired and warn out! Manager said MAYBE new plastic around the handles, but if nothing is broken then they don't fix! Sand can not be replaced until SPRING because if they add it now, it will just freeze during the winter. An insurance company owns the facility and has a service maintain the area (as cheaply as possible). IF they did redo everything, they would raise the rent, says nice mr. i'm just doing my job manager. Any other suggestions? Guess it is no use to ask for an outdoor grill...

Lost Items Found at ImHONEST

2008-10-18T03:47:00.000-07:00

A cool dude of ours, whom Mikko went to business school with in Mikkeli, Finland AND was in our wedding has started a cool new business.

Have you found an item and not sure how to bring it back to it's owner? OR have you lost an item and wish to look for it. Read more and find out how this works. It's really cool...

Great work Joel Nunez!

Happy Birthday Opa!

2008-10-14T11:09:00.000-07:00

Hey, Opa, we miss you! Wish we could be at Opa's house to celebrate your 54th birthday!

When ever we go to the market and see diet soda we let everyone know it's "Opa drink". We still drive mom crazy and play with our food saying, "Eat the boat!" Sometimes I (B) like to get T.J. excited about singing "Na Na Na Na Na Na Na-Hey!" when we are in bed and don't feel like sleeping.

We hope you are well and taking good care of yourself so that one day we can visit and get free piggie-back rides!

Mom wanted to order this video clip just for your birthday! Enjoy!

2008-10-12T11:13:00.000-07:00

This blog is brought to you by some cheap snack company from Europe. This one is for you Cathy! Seriously, balancing life with 3 small wee-ones has challenged every area of my life physically, emotionally and spiritually.

Now that Mikko is away playing floor ball somewhere, and children all tucked in their beds, I can check in with ya'll! I must be totally clueless that we are having a recession here. But now that I am well informed after someone talking about it. I am now determined to invest in American and Finnish products when it comes to buying our daily needs.

I am learning that ministry does not have to be in some neat package or program. My family IS ministry. The random times in the play yard is ministry. Spending wonderful time with a family in Vehniä is ministry! By the way Elina, it was great hanging out this weekend! That town is certainly small and sometimes, for example, even my personal problems were everyones business! (I had a near breast infection...oh the jokes they made!).

What else? Well, I feel quite dry spiritually and am learning how to feed from God's word creatively. Probably should sign out and go to bed so I can rise early, just wanted to check in!

Please Pray: Shooting in Finland

2008-09-28T10:32:00.000-07:00

Last week another shooting occurred on the west side of Finland. Remember last year? We and the country are saddened. Watched the BBC video. It is interesting that the police are investigating why the student was so filled with hate. It makes it more affirmed in my heart that these people need a savior. Murderer or not, we all need Jesus...

Please remember those living, the family, the community and the young students here.

My parents thoughts on Finland

2008-09-27T10:11:00.000-07:00

My mother wrote an email earlier about their trip here, I thought it would be interesting to share her thoughts...

"We had a great time in Finland, and now we know why you love it so much! I enjoyed the food, being able to walk everywhere and taking pictures of the country!

...I am glad to be back home to our wonderful bed, my washing machine, and shower though! How does anyone with a large family ever get their laundry done? Especially during the winter time! It's nice not having to squeegee the floor after every shower.

I was sharing with Maria [My mother-in-law] that countries should get together and share all their best stuff that makes more sense. Like our showers with the stalls make more sense, and windows like Maria's blinds between the 2 panes is smarter..."

My mom and dad were so much fun while here!

But let me clarify some things...

We had my mom sleep on the guest bed and my dad sleep on the floor.

It is true, our wash machines are slower by one hour or more (but our clothes are clean aren't they!) In fact, I will ask my neighbor who is soon to have five children how she gets laundry done, hold please...

She wasn't available, but Mikko was telling me today that everyday is laundry day now for us, an I surely believe it!

I actually think our showers are cooler because I don't have to clean a shower door, I just wash my curtain! There are showers here with stalls but it's not the norm. True, water gets everywhere without stalls and it's my pet-peeve when I walk in with socks and find the floor wet! MIIIIKKKKOOO!

MY KITCHEN: Some other things she told me while here was that I have a mini-bake oven! I must have gotten so used to being Finnish-in a sense that my oven that slightly tilts forward (make eggs and pancake batter slide down the pan) is quite normal. I totally forgot that I grew-up with a large gas range oven! Then again, before I married and afterwards I have used a small stove at a university campus and seminary, so this is normal! My kitchen is even a "Mini-Bake" Kitchen.

SAUNA: My mother did not even shower before entering the sauna the first time and immediately left saying, "That was the biggest hot-flash ever!" Too funny...

I am so glad you had fun! Come again, and you can sleep on our bed next time (If I'm not pregnant, that is).

Language Learning at One Week Check-Up

2008-09-11T21:12:00.001-07:00

Dude, she gained 200 grams! That is 7.1 ounces! Oooohhhh. She is nursing well and several times slept the whole night! Wow...

Meanwhile at this appointment the health nurse is explaining how to care for her belly button. I told her to speak slow because I don't know a lot of Finnish.

This is what I understood:

Ok, It is very important to care for this belly button because you do not want to risk infection. Do not bathe the baby completely because BLAH BLAH BLAH infection.

If it does get infected you will have to use BLAH BLAH BLAH medicine.

Do not use BLAH BLAH BLAH.

You can bathe her with a wet clothe, just don't wash her belly button or it will BLAH BLAH BLAH.

Call us if her belly button, BLAH BLAH BLAH or looks like BLAH BLAH BLAH.

Let's make an appointment for next week to look at her belly button to make sure she does not have BLAH BLAH BLAH.

Ok, so like, I did stop her in between all this and asked, but still didn't understand completely. She even said more BLAH BLAH BLAH and I was stumped. Hence the need to learn Finnish!

I started Finnish this week and plan on bringing little P. She slept the whole time during class and woke when it ended! I think it is a good class for me, just hope little one can sleep the whole time!